Downsides To Dying With Too Much Money


The fear of running out of money in retirement is very real. In fact, it’s the number one fear among older adults – even over declining health. According to the Transamerica Center for Retirement Studies, 43% of adults surveyed said their greatest fear about retirement was outliving their savings and investments.

This very fear is what keeps people working well past what might have been their retirement age. It also makes people take certain risks and make questionable decisions.

This fear is understandable. No one wants to run out of money during the time of life when you’re supposed to be enjoying the spoils of years of hard work. However, is this fear truly something we should be stressing about? Financial Samurai thinks we might be overdoing it.

In fact, perhaps there’s something else we should think about when it comes to money and retirement: the fear of dying with too much money. 

Stay with me here. It may seem a like silly thing to worry about, but is there a downside to dying with too much money? Let’s look at what this might mean.

Downsides to Dying With Too Much Money

1) It means you worked more than you needed to.

Perhaps you gave up those vacations and time with family and were left wondering where the time went. You missed out on time you won’t get back for money you didn’t need. For physicians, that might mean that you took those extra weekend or holiday calls for a little extra cash. And of course, one of the greatest regrets older people have is that they worked too hard and too often.

2) It might mean that you deprived yourself of some pleasures by being too frugal.

You’ve had some things on your bucket list, but you were worried about the financial impact of traveling there or buying that certain thing, so you abstained. Because of your desire to save (perhaps for retirement), you missed out on some pleasures in the here and now.

3) Perhaps there are other people who could have benefited from your income but did not.

Maybe you thought about giving more, but the fear of not having enough money kept you from it. It’s an uncomfortable thought, but when you’re on your deathbed, will you be happy for the money you saved? Or rather, for the difference you made?

The thought of giving more isn’t unheard of among the wealthy – Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, and Warren Buffett are just a few people who have signed a pledge (The Giving Pledge) to give away a majority of their wealth in their lifetime.

4) You might trigger inheritance or estate taxes.

These might sound similar but are two different things. Only certain states have an inheritance tax (up to 18%), which is taxed on an inheritance over a certain designated amount. An estate tax, on the other hand, currently only exists for estates greater than $10 million (according to the new 2018 Tax Law). But this can be a significant amount. I concede that this fits in the “good problem to have” category, but perhaps it would be better to avoid the extra taxes in the first place, especially if it’s for good reasons.

5) You might ultimately hand down your money to someone who doesn’t really need it.

With increased life expectancy, people are often passing along their money to their children who are in their fifties and sixties or beyond. If you’ve been able to teach them great habits and they’ve been disciplined, hopefully they’ve already financially independence by that point. If so, your financial gift may mean that they’ll die with too much, and we’re back to square one.

Final Thoughts

The truth is, even after reaching financial freedom or financial independence, a good number of people, including physicians, find reasons to continue to work. Look at some of the wealthiest people, like those I mentioned earlier. They’re financially independent, and yet they continue to work. Because of this, they’ll likely continue to grow their net worth more and more. For many people, retirement isn’t the end of their career. You may want to continue working anyway, even if you have more than enough money.

Ultimately, we have to ask ourselves these questions.

What is the point of money, anyway? Is it our greatest goal, or a means to an end? 

I believe that happiness, both now and in the future, relies on seeing money as a tool, not the goal. Indeed, money doesn’t buy happiness — but it can buy you time and experiences.

Yes, it would extremely helpful to know exactly when we’re gonna leave this earth or how much we’re going to die with, but that requires a gift none of us have (as far as I know). Want to know how much money you might die with? The White Coat investor thinks we just might be overly conservative with our projections.

Of course, as with everything, balance is the key. Savings are important, but it’s up to you to decide just how important. Will growing your retirement fund become your ultimate goal? Or will you live life to the fullest now, enjoying your short time with family, and bettering your community? Can you find that great balance?

What do you think? Do you worry at all about dying with too much money? Think the fear of outliving your money is overblown?


  1. My goal is to Die Broke!
    LOL. Seriously.
    Like Stephen Pollan argues it is best to use your money when you are alive. He recommends giving it away while you are alive, spending on your self in later years, and maybe annuities so you have cash flow in your later years but not a pile of cash to sit on.
    I told my in-laws to go ahead and spend their money – we don’t need it. They are in their mid-late 70’s. They have a boat and an art studio and often travel to Europe. They have IPhones and IPads and enjoy their lives. I see it would be nice to spend more in your advanced years.